This month marks the 9th anniversary of when I made a promise to myself that I would not give up on myself. In 2015, my life wasn’t where I wanted it to be physically and mentally. I had a great career and a wonderful, supportive family, but my ability to enjoy life felt limited. As a Family Nurse Practitioner, I was expected to promote health and wellness, yet I felt like a total hypocrite discussing this. My endocrinologist informed me that I would struggle with my weight forever due to Type II Diabetes and the absence of my thyroid, which was removed in 2010 following a Papillary Thyroid cancer diagnosis. At my heaviest, I weighed 254lbs and struggled to even play with my young children. I knew I had to make a change for myself and for my family. I always tell people I felt like I was trapped inside a body that I knew could be so much more.
Determined to improve my health, I turned to Beachbody (I really can’t say enough good things about this company!). This program provided a structured approach that I desperately needed at the time. That’s the hardest part, right? Where do you start when something is completely new to you?Through portion control and dedicated workouts, particularly the 22 Minute Hard Core program, I managed to lose 50lbs. I was so proud of this as I did it on my own. However, my progress was not without setbacks and I eventually found myself in pain and in a plateau. I developed persistent sciatica, which hindered my ability to be active and even pick up my kids at times.
In search of relief, I discovered yoga. The impact was so profound that I earned my 200-hour yoga certification and began teaching at a local gym. Embracing yoga introduced me to the Ayurvedic lifestyle, which further improved my eating habits and overall wellness. This phase of my life helped me shed an additional 20lbs, and made my sciatica almost non-existent. Despite this, I eventually found myself stuck in another plateau at 180lbs. I always tell people this plateau was the most frustrating as I had come so far but struggled mentally that I wasn’t doing enough. My mental health and confidence also took another hit as I also began dealing with loose skin at this point. Anybody that has dealt with loose skin can attest to how hard it is to deal with not just the physical concerns that loose skin causes but also the mental and emotional concerns. I needed a better option.
To address the loose skin and enhance my confidence, I opted for a tummy tuck. This surgery was life-changing. It not only improved my physical appearance and back health but also boosted my mental well-being and workout efficiency. I cannot say enough positives about getting a tummy tuck. Although it is not for everyone and is definitely NOT a painless surgery, it was well worth it. Despite these improvements, I remained at a weight plateau.
Seeking further assistance, I consulted a certified weight loss doctor who prescribed Ozempic. This medication helped me break through my plateau, leading to better blood sugar control and no more insulin. However, I experienced a significant loss of muscle mass, a trade-off that I will delve into in future posts. With the help of medications (Ozempic/Wegovy/Mounjaro), I reached 140lbs but then faced another plateau for over a year.
At the start of 2024, frustrated and aware that something was off with my hormones, I sought the help of a naturopath. My stress levels were sky high due to work stress, my sleep left much to be desired, my poor husband wasn’t sure what mood I would be in each day, and my weight loss was stagnant. It was at this point, a food intolerance test revealed that dairy was a major issue for me. Eliminating dairy from my diet was transformative: my migraines disappeared, my skin and hair improved, my sleep quality increased, and my inflammatory markers normalized for the first time ever! Finally, I broke through my plateau and reached my goal weight of 120lbs by summer.
From 2016 to now, I have lost a total of 135lbs and have achieved my best mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health. This journey has been challenging but incredibly rewarding. It has taught me that weight loss is not just about calories in and out; it’s about finding balance and understanding your body. Through my personal journey, wellness has become my passion, and I enjoy coming alongside others to support them achieve their wellness goals. I truly believe everyone deserves to feel their best. I look forward to sharing more insights from my journey (there is just so much!) and helping others on their path to health each week in this blog.
Never give up—your wellness journey is worth every step.
Written By: Roxanne Oliver, DNP, APRN, FNP-BC
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