My Wellness Journey: From 254lbs to 120lbs

This month marks the 9th anniversary of when I made a promise to myself that I would not give up on myself. In 2015, my life wasn’t where I wanted it to be physically and mentally. I had a great career and a wonderful, supportive family, but my ability to enjoy life felt limited. As a Family Nurse Practitioner, I was expected to promote health and wellness, yet I felt like a total hypocrite discussing this. My endocrinologist informed me that I would struggle with my weight forever due to Type II Diabetes and the absence of my thyroid, which was removed in 2010 following a Papillary Thyroid cancer diagnosis. At my heaviest, I weighed 254lbs and struggled to even play with my young children. I knew I had to make a change for myself and for my family. I always tell people I felt like I was trapped inside a body that I knew could be so much more.

Determined to improve my health, I turned to Beachbody (I really can’t say enough good things about this company!). This program provided a structured approach that I desperately needed at the time. That’s the hardest part, right? Where do you start when something is completely new to you?Through portion control and dedicated workouts, particularly the 22 Minute Hard Core program, I managed to lose 50lbs. I was so proud of this as I did it on my own. However, my progress was not without setbacks and I eventually found myself in pain and in a plateau. I developed persistent sciatica, which hindered my ability to be active and even pick up my kids at times.

In search of relief, I discovered yoga. The impact was so profound that I earned my 200-hour yoga certification and began teaching at a local gym. Embracing yoga introduced me to the Ayurvedic lifestyle, which further improved my eating habits and overall wellness. This phase of my life helped me shed an additional 20lbs, and made my sciatica almost non-existent. Despite this, I eventually found myself stuck in another plateau at 180lbs. I always tell people this plateau was the most frustrating as I had come so far but struggled mentally that I wasn’t doing enough. My mental health and confidence also took another hit as I also began dealing with loose skin at this point. Anybody that has dealt with loose skin can attest to how hard it is to deal with not just the physical concerns that loose skin causes but also the mental and emotional concerns. I needed a better option.

To address the loose skin and enhance my confidence, I opted for a tummy tuck. This surgery was life-changing. It not only improved my physical appearance and back health but also boosted my mental well-being and workout efficiency. I cannot say enough positives about getting a tummy tuck. Although it is not for everyone and is definitely NOT a painless surgery, it was well worth it. Despite these improvements, I remained at a weight plateau.

Seeking further assistance, I consulted a certified weight loss doctor who prescribed Ozempic. This medication helped me break through my plateau, leading to better blood sugar control and no more insulin. However, I experienced a significant loss of muscle mass, a trade-off that I will delve into in future posts. With the help of medications (Ozempic/Wegovy/Mounjaro), I reached 140lbs but then faced another plateau for over a year.

At the start of 2024, frustrated and aware that something was off with my hormones, I sought the help of a naturopath. My stress levels were sky high due to work stress, my sleep left much to be desired, my poor husband wasn’t sure what mood I would be in each day, and my weight loss was stagnant. It was at this point, a food intolerance test revealed that dairy was a major issue for me. Eliminating dairy from my diet was transformative: my migraines disappeared, my skin and hair improved, my sleep quality increased, and my inflammatory markers normalized for the first time ever! Finally, I broke through my plateau and reached my goal weight of 120lbs by summer.

From 2016 to now, I have lost a total of 135lbs and have achieved my best mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health. This journey has been challenging but incredibly rewarding. It has taught me that weight loss is not just about calories in and out; it’s about finding balance and understanding your body. Through my personal journey, wellness has become my passion, and I enjoy coming alongside others to support them achieve their wellness goals. I truly believe everyone deserves to feel their best. I look forward to sharing more insights from my journey (there is just so much!) and helping others on their path to health each week in this blog.

Never give up—your wellness journey is worth every step.

Written By: Roxanne Oliver, DNP, APRN, FNP-BC

*The information contained in this post is for information only. It does not replace routine follow-up and/or care with a certified and licensed medical provider.

The Power of Consistency: How Establishing a Routine Can Boost Mental Well-being

In our fast-paced world, where the demands of work, social life, and personal responsibilities can often feel overwhelming, it’s easy to neglect the importance of consistency in our daily routines. Yet, research consistently shows that incorporating a consistent schedule can significantly improve mental well-being and overall quality of life. Let’s delve into the reasons why consistency is crucial for mental health, discuss some examples of what a consistent schedule can look like, and look at practical ways to incorporate consistency into daily life.

The Importance of Consistency for Mental Well-being

Consistency provides a sense of stability and predictability in our lives, which is essential for managing stress and anxiety. When we follow a consistent routine, our brains can automate tasks and reduce decision fatigue, freeing up mental energy for more important activities. This predictability can also create a sense of control over our lives, which is crucial for maintaining mental health in uncertain times. This is something that has personally worked well for me as I balance many priorities all the time and I don’t want one to suffer because of the other.

Research has shown that people with consistent routines tend to experience lower levels of stress, anxiety, and depression. A study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences found that individuals with regular, daily routines reported higher levels of psychological well-being compared to those with more irregular schedules. Another study published in Frontiers in Human Neuroscience showed that following a consistent sleep schedule was associated with better cognitive performance and emotional regulation.

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Examples of Consistent Schedules

A consistent schedule can take many forms, depending on individual preferences and lifestyle. Here are some examples:

  1. Morning Routine: Start the day with a consistent morning routine, such as waking up at the same time each day, practicing mindfulness or meditation, and eating a healthy breakfast. I like to start off with a 10-minute Red Light session coupled with a 10-minute mediation on my Peloton app!
  2. Work Schedule: Establish a consistent work schedule by setting specific work hours and sticking to them. This includes taking regular breaks and scheduling time for tasks such as emails, meetings, and creative work. This can be difficult if you are working from home, but totally worth it for your mental health.
  3. Exercise Routine: Incorporate regular exercise into your weekly schedule by designating specific days and times for physical activity. Whether it’s going for a run, attending a fitness class, or practicing yoga, consistency is key for reaping the mental health benefits of exercise. Remember…you do not have to complete this perfect workout that you think everyone else is doing. Dedicate 10-minutes a day if you need to. That is still an accomplish you should be proud of!
  4. Sleep Schedule: Maintain a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time each day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body’s internal clock and promotes better sleep quality. I have found this to be so important in my life. Consistency has even allowed me to slowly transition into more of a morning person–which I am not typically!

How to Incorporate Consistency into Daily Life

Incorporating consistency into your daily life doesn’t have to be daunting. Here are some practical tips to help you establish a more consistent routine:

  1. Identify Priorities: Start by identifying the areas of your life where consistency would be most beneficial, whether it’s sleep, exercise, work, or leisure activities.
  2. Set Realistic Goals: Be realistic about what you can achieve and start small. Gradually build consistency in one area of your life before moving on to others.
  3. Create a Schedule: Write down a daily or weekly schedule that includes specific times for activities such as work, exercise, meals, and relaxation. Stick to this schedule as much as possible.
  4. Stay Flexible: While consistency is important, it’s also essential to be flexible and adapt to changes when necessary. Allow yourself some leeway for unexpected events or disruptions to your routine.
  5. Monitor Your Progress: Keep track of your progress and adjust your schedule as needed. Celebrate your successes and learn from any setbacks along the way.

By incorporating a consistent schedule into your daily life, you can reap the benefits of improved mental well-being, reduced stress, and increased productivity. Remember that consistency is a journey, not a destination, so be patient with yourself as you work towards establishing healthier habits. With time and dedication, you’ll find that consistency becomes second nature, leading to a happier and more fulfilling life.

Written By: Roxanne Oliver, DNP, APRN, FNP-BC

Published: 04/13/2024

*The information contained in this post is for information only. It does not replace routine follow-up and/or care with a certified and licensed medical provider.

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